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"We are wonderfully and fearfully made", we know it and it feels good. To be constantly reminded of how good looking we are makes it even sink deeper and strongly into our inner person.

Sisters, you agree with me that compliments work wonders in your hearts and more so your demeanor.

The crunch of the matter checks in when your 'sex appeal' starts to evoke public opinion. You start to feel, walk and dress like the comments going round about you. Imagine a Child of God feeling Sexy?…ouch!…or maybe something like that. You say "what the 'Hell', I have a nice picture of myself that depicts a part of my anatomy that shouts, Hey! I don't think you can handle this!". The next stop: your christianvibes profile, operation: splashing your 'best' photo on the profile.

Tick, tock, tick, tock…someone notices the picture(NOT your profile) and goes YOOHOOO you are so CUTE/SEXY!! and I want to be your FRIEND…tick, tock, tick, tock…you are so overwhelmed at the responses you get on your album.

When a person wants to be your friend because you are sexy, then it is time to be conscious of what is happening in you first and then check what's happening to you! Then give this 'Frienship' a deep thought, does it draw you to or away from Jesus? Where is God in this frienship?

You still don't get it, right? So you sit and think "hmm, maybe being wanted because I'm sexy isn't so bad after all, well it's not something you can help, it's part of your anatomy anyway.

Being sexy is just what you are and not whom you are!

Whom you are is what will still draw people to you at age 80.

It's TIME TO BE CONSCIOUS and CAUTIOUS OF WHAT HAPPENS AROUND YOU AND IN YOU. Does your person draw people to Godliness or to Coldness of Heart towards Godly things? Over to you.